I am uncomfortable writing this, as it can come across as though I’m attacking women/womanhood, this isn’t the case, per se, but I do feel there is a deeply important issue to be faced, an issue for women, for feminism, and ultimately an issue for all of us as humans.
Women are in an awkward position, they may not know it and this may just be blind ignorance on their part.
When growing up we are told, that girls can wear dresses, skirts, trousers, that boys can wear trousers.
And yet Women have no worries about this, they have no instance to say…. Women should be allowed to wear trousers because women should have freedom and respect and it is important to be able to express oneself through clothing and so one should have freedom, oh yes and by the way this does not apply to men. This does not apply to anyone who feels themselves to be transgender, male to female (M2F).
so what are men to women? Certainly not human beings, I mean women why should they care? perhaps a 3rd of men who are M2F commit suicide, but how are women meant to know they would do that? I mean it’s not as though we believe women to have any empathy or caring feelings.
And yet we raise our children this way, and women often the person in the family house who decides on the clothes their children wear, women “Know” that equality is important… ahh, but equality for women is a one way street, one that only people born with a vagina are allowed to drive along.
What are men then? Men are nothing but automaton, men are robots designed to serve women, yeah, he’s a modern guy, he washes up, he cleans and he looks after his family…. but wait, he wears a dress “KLAXXON< KLAXXON”
Because as we know, women must be allowed freedom and shown respect, but anybody born with a penis must be tagged as male (Through trouser clothing huh?!), because we all know, men are monsters, just because boys are mistreated by their mothers, just because boys are raised with sexist matriarchal values, that is no reason for them to go on to be sexists is it?????!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Just because boys might want to wear a silk dress, they’re not allowed, they are then repressed, and when they are adults women point the finger and say “Oh look, he’s so repressed”, “Why are men always so repressed”????? And why are men so sexist????? WHERE Could they have possibly got that from???
Women please help yourselves right at this moment, do yourselves a favour, at the moment you are the gender fascist matriarchy, if you want equality, then go for it, rock and roll, me too, but if you are going to keep up the premise that only women are allowed freedom, that only women are to be shown respect, then don’t start saying you want equality, give up with it because you are coming across as morons.
We cannot start with a position of extreme sexism (Many M2F individuals commit suicide, and why? for fear of how they’ll be treated/mistreated for wearing a dress), we cannot campaign for equality whilst this is an unresolved issue.
we must make provision for boys who want to wear a dress/skirt, we must make the clothing available to them, we must make sure schools understand that we raise our children with love and understanding, we must make sure that M2F children do not fear threat of ridicule/bullying.
Unless we do this, we cannot campaign for equality, because to do so is to make a mockery of the very term equality.
I have not met the woman who wants equality. All the women I know are sexists who want to power grab.
I believe we can move this forward, I believe we can do better and I ask for your help and support in this matter.